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This article was co-authored by Sarah Schewitz, PsyD . Sarah Schewitz, Psy.D. is a licensed clinical psychologist by the California Board of Psychology with over 10 years of experience. She received her Psy.D. from the Florida Institute of Technology in 2011. She is the founder of Couples Learn, an online psychology practice helping couples and individuals improve and change their patterns in love and relationships. There are 13 references cited in this article, which can be found at the bottom of the page. wikiHow marks an article as reader-approved once it receives enough positive feedback. In this case, 83% of readers who voted found the article helpful, earning it our reader-approved status. This article has been viewed 79,336 times.

Talking to a crush is incredibly nerve wracking—the possibility of being rejected is extremely real and frightening. Instead of allowing this fear to consume you, set aside your insecurities and doubts. Take a risk and muster up the self-confidence to engage your crush in conversation.

Talking to Your Crush in Person

Step 1 Start with a simple greeting.

  • Don’t try to force the conversation. If your crush says “hello” and keeps walking, don’t chase after them. Your crush may not be interested in talking to you or they may be heading somewhere in a hurry. [1] X Research source

Step 2 Ask your crush an open ended question.

  • Stock questions include: “How are you doing?” “What are you doing over break?” “Were you at the game last night?” “Do you work at _____?”
  • School related questions include: “Did we have homework in English class?” “Do you want to study for the test together?” “What did you think about the quiz?” “Do you need help with the Math homework?”
  • Personalized questions include: “How did you play in the game last night?” “Have you ever seen (insert band’s name) perform live?” ” “What are you doing this weekend?” “Are you going to the party?” “How was your vacation?” [2] X Research source

Step 3 Listen to their response.

  • Set aside all potential distractions, like your phone and computer.
  • Make mental notes of potential follow-up questions or relevant personal stories to share. [4] X Research source

Step 4 Share a relevant anecdote or ask a follow-up question.

  • Continue asking each other questions, telling jokes, and exchanging stories until one or both of you decide to end the conversation. [5] X Research source

Step 5 Present the best version of yourself.

  • Don't spend the entire conversation boasting about your latest accomplishments and avoid exclusively discussing your laundry list of failures. Instead, discuss your passions, your interests, and your dreams for the future. Your crush will come to see how awesome you are!
  • Asking thoughtful questions demonstrates that you are caring, considerate, and genuinely interested in your crush. [6] X Research source

Step 6 Communicate to your crush with body language.

  • Maintain eye contact with your crush. Your eyes can convey a variety of feelings, from love and lust to interest and attraction.
  • Mirror their body language and facial reactions.
  • Nod occasionally to let your crush know you are listening.
  • Initiate appropriate contact by touching your crush on the arm or shoulder occasionally.
  • Remain aware of your gestures and facial expressions. If your facial expression and gestures don't match the sentiment of your words, you run the risk of sending mixed messages to your crush. [7] X Trustworthy Source HelpGuide Nonprofit organization dedicated to providing free, evidence-based mental health and wellness resources. Go to source

Talking to Your Crush Via Text and Social Media Platforms

Step 1 Text your crush.

  • Exchange numbers with your crush or get their number from a mutual acquaintance.
  • Text your crush the same day or night you receive their number.
  • Don’t text your crush at odd hours, like early in the morning or late at night.
  • Instead of texting just “Hi,” begin the conversation by asking your crush a question, telling them it was nice to see them, or asking them to make plans.
  • Don’t stress about your crush’s response time.
  • If your crush doesn't respond after the first or second text, do not try again. Your crush's phone number is privileged information. Don't abuse the privilege.
  • Use traditional grammar and spelling in your text messages. [8] X Research source

Step 2 Flirt with your crush on Instagram.

  • Don’t like every post.
  • If you are feeling bold, comment on their picture. [9] X Research source

Step 3 Flirt with your crush on Twitter.

  • Retweet their latest Tweet. Your crush will be flattered that you liked their clever comment or at very least be reminded that you exist.
  • Follow them on Twitter. Everyone gets a small twinge of excitement when a new person follows them on Twitter—your crush won’t be any different.
  • Direct message your crush. You can use Twitter’s Direct Message feature to talk to and flirt with your crush one-on-one.
  • Instead of retweeting and replying to every one of you crush's Tweets, be selective. Choose one or two Tweets to respond to or retweet each week. [10] X Research source

Developing Your Self-Confidence

Step 1 Learn to love yourself.

  • Instead of criticizing your appearance, identify your best attributes. Write them down and repeat these positive qualities to yourself whenever you feel insecure. When you look in the mirror, you will start to notice your favorite features instead of focusing on your least favorite features.
  • Make a second list of your best characteristics. Are you a great friend, a hard worker, an awesome teacher, or a talented musician? Do you show compassion and kindness to everyone, are you willing to give others second chances, or do you have the ability to make unbiased decisions? Your best characteristics are some of your most attractive qualities. [11] X Research source

Step 2 Start accepting compliments.

  • When you start receiving compliments from others, you will start believing that their comments are true.
  • Instead of saying “Thanks, but ____,” simply say “Thanks” and smile. As you grow more comfortable and confident, you can expand your reply. [12] X Research source

Step 3 Develop a list of conversation starters.

  • ”What have you been up to?”
  • ”Have you seen the latest episode of _____?”
  • ”What did you think of the test?”
  • ”Do you know when the English assignment is due?”
  • ”Are you going to the game tomorrow?” [13] X Research source

Step 4 Don’t wait for your crush to make the first move.

  • Don’t assume that if your crush really wanted to talk to you, they would start a conversation with you. Your crush may be feeling as insecure, shy, and unsure as you.
  • Instead of waiting for your crush to make the first move, take charge and talk to your crush with confidence.
  • If it turns out that your crush isn’t interested in you, at least you’ll never spend time wondering about what could have been. [14] X Research source

Step 5 Stay calm, cool, and collected throughout the conversation.

  • Avoid gossiping about others
  • Try to control your nervous ticks, like biting your nails or twirling your hair
  • Don’t act pushy—if your crush isn’t interested in you, move on
  • Avoid making offensive comments
  • Do not tell lies about yourself [15] X Research source

Expert Q&A

Sarah Schewitz, PsyD

  • Ask your friends or your crush's friends if he or she is single. You can also check your crush's social media sites or ask your crush. Thanks Helpful 2 Not Helpful 1
  • If your crush is talking about something you don't think is interesting don't ignore them. At least act like you're interested. If not, then your crush may realize and not want to talk to you. You may want to try to change the subject. That's fine but don't tell your crush you're not interested. Try to easily change the subject. Thanks Helpful 1 Not Helpful 0

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You've been eyeing your crush for a while now, but you don't have the guts to make a move yet. With the school season quickly approaching, you're about to reconnect with bae. So how do you conquer that fear of asking them out? If you find yourself needing an extra boost of confidence, consider this your guide to making your dating dream a reality.

Breathe in, breathe out

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Anxiety is no joke, especially when it comes to your crush. It can fill your mind with a million thoughts and worries. But no need to feel overwhelmed: We got you covered! First, let's try a breathing technique. Inhale deeply for two seconds, then exhale for four seconds. As you breathe, visualize your "happy place." Your happy place is anywhere that calms your nerves—the beach, park or simply being around family. Anxiety can also cause your body to hold lots of tension. Relax your jaw, drop your shoulders, move your arms, legs and shake out those jittery feelings.

Give yourself a pep talk

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We tend to be our biggest critics, which is why it's equally important to be our *biggest* motivators. Say these affirmations out loud to jumpstart your confidence:

"I can do anything I put my mind to."

"I can handle anything that comes my way."

"I'm awesome."

"I believe in myself."

Be sure to repeat these on a daily basis. The more you practice saying them, the more your self-esteem will increase. Say goodbye to those negative thoughts!

Be specific with your intentions

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Before you approach your crush, it's important to know what exactly you want to say to them. Don't approach them with a vague statement like "Let's hang out." The last thing you want is for there to be any miscommunication. Be specific with your intentions (it shows that you want to get to know them better). Suggest a date like the movies, the homecoming dance or your school's upcoming football game. 

Find the right timing

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When it comes to mustering up the courage to ask out your crush, finding the right timing and location are key. Ideally, ask when you're not in a time crunch and your surroundings aren't too hectic (rushing between chemistry and lit class = no good). But if you catch them hanging around the caf during free period, just go for it! 

Prepare a few conversation starters

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If you're stuck on how to start the convo, don't worry. One of the *best* ways to take initiative is by beginning with small talk—it'll make things more comfortable between the two of you, break any awkward tension and help get the conversation flowing. Remember, conversations aren't supposed to be perfect so stay chill, natural and don't overthink it!

  • Ask about their day/how they are doing.  One of the most universal ways to begin a convo, simply ask about how their day has been so far and go from there! Depending on their answer, you can find a way to relate to them or branch into another topic. 
  • Ask for advice or a favor.  Asking for advice is super useful if you want to have an excuse to talk to your crush. Try asking for help with a homework question, a decision you've been contemplating or for a recommendation on what you should do/where you should go. You can also ask them to get something for you that you can't reach, to borrow something or to catch you up on anything you missed in class. 
  • Compliment them.  If there's one thing that's true, everyone loves to get complimented. Whether it be on a shirt you like or their skills in an activity, your crush will remember you if you take the time to compliment them on something you noticed.
  • Find something in common.  Heads up, this may require a bit of digging! If you find something in common with your crush, it'll be easy to bring up and continue talking about. After all, convos are always more fun if you're both interested in the topic. 

Once you've talked for a bit, pop the question. Bring up a relevant topic and ask if they want to join you or if they are free to do something. If you're feeling *extra* nervous to hang out one on one, you can also invite them to a double date or to spend time in a group setting. 

Be okay with any outcome

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Once you've finally asked them out, be okay with a "no". Although we're hoping for it to all work out, being flexible will make you stronger as a person and more resilient. There are a ton of reasons why someone may say "no" (it doesn't mean that you're not worthy!), so trust that whatever happens happened for a reason. Being your most authentic and genuine self is what's important, and if the timing isn't right to be with them, there's nothing wrong with that. 

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Welcome back to another article of Simply Advice! If you didn’t know, Simply Advice covers different categories like “Choices”, “Finance Matters”, “Help” and more! Today’s “Help” article is slightly interesting but crazily prevalent in schools and even private tuitions in Singapore. When Your Friend Asks You For Help With HOMEWORK!!!! It might seem trivial, “just send the answer lah” is one of the common replies you’d hear. On the other hand, some would just say “do it yourself lah”! And some, maybe like you, would be in a dilemma – to help or not. Today, we discuss some suggestions you could adopt in such a situation.

Never Just Give The Answer

Firstly, it’s important to note that in whatever situation, you should never ever just provide your friend/best friend/girlfriend/boyfriend the answer to homework. It’s not meaningful at all! No matter the circumstances (deadline approaching or you’re too busy to explain or you’re too lazy to explain or they’re your close friend), nothing would ever beat taking homework seriously and trying it. Copying (or referring) will never ever be an effective learning method at all! Teachers and private tutors assign homework for you students so that you guys can get a hand at applying knowledge you’ve learnt in class or during home tuition. If you don’t know how to do it, it’s an indicator that maybe you need to work on the foundations of the topic! Homework is key to application of content taught, so do your friend a favour and never ever give the answer directly. Maybe guiding steps or hints could help them trigger the thought process, so at least they’re trying it on their own. Get what I mean?

Revisit Their Poor Concepts

To better help friends who struggle with homework, you might want to consider revisiting the concepts they’re not so good at with them. Put the homework aside for a while and focus on revisiting materials provided by the school or home tutor to grow a better understanding of the topic. This way, you might be able to help fill up the gaps in your friends’ understanding, and it would definitely serve as good revision for yourself too! Do you know that when you explain concepts to someone, you’re actually practising the application aspect of content too? This is because regurgitating content versus actually explaining it to someone is really really different! To really explain a concept to someone who doesn’t understand it would require rephrasing and really a deep foundation in that field. You are doing yourself a favour by doing someone a favour! In society today, we can never survive alone. Collaboration usually leads to more fruitful outcomes. Start young, start from homework!

Suggest To Go For Consultations (Maybe Together?)

If all else fails and you realise that you actually also do not understand some concepts while in the process of explaining to your confused friend, it might be time to possibly go for a consultation with the teacher together! Or even if you don’t need it, but your friend still doesn’t understand your explanation, then you might want to suggest for your friend to meet the teacher for further clarification. A common problem in schools in Singapore is that students do not dare to meet the teachers for consultation though, so if you are not uncomfortable with accompanying your friend, offering to do so might be helpful for them! After all, it doesn’t kill doing a good deed does it? Going for a consultation with your friend is also a positive experience for yourself. With the comfort of the consultation being of a smaller group, it will be a good time to clarify doubts in general with regards to the subject as well.

If you caught literally nothing from the article, here’s the important thing. There are so many other better ways to help friends who struggle with homework than to simply send your answers to them or ignore them. There is so much good energy that can come out of taking the ‘extra’ step to help them fruitfully. As a leading Singapore tuition agency , FamilyTutor urges you to try this one day, and you will realise that if everyone was like this, school would be a way more positive and enjoyable environment for everyone to learn together. Be that change today!

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Listen: we know homework isn’t fun, but it is a good way to reinforce the ideas and concepts you’ve learned in class. But what if you’re really struggling with your homework assignments? 

If you’ve looked online for a little extra help with your take-home assignments, you’ve probably stumbled across websites claiming to provide the homework help and answers students need to succeed . But can homework help sites really make a difference? And if so, which are the best homework help websites you can use? 

Below, we answer these questions and more about homework help websites–free and paid. We’ll go over: 

  • The basics of homework help websites 
  • The cost of homework help websites 
  • The five best homework websites out there 
  • The pros and cons of using these websites for homework help 
  • The line between “learning” and “cheating” when using online homework help 
  • Tips for getting the most out of a homework help website

So let’s get started! 

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The Basics About Homework Help Websites–Free and Paid

Homework help websites are designed to help you complete your homework assignments, plain and simple. 

What Makes a Homework Help Site Worth Using

Most of the best sites allow users to ask questions and then provide an answer (or multiple possible answers) and explanation in seconds. In some instances, you can even send a photo of a particular assignment or problem instead of typing the whole thing out! 

Homework help sites also offer more than just help answering homework questions. Common services provided are Q&A with experts, educational videos, lectures, practice tests and quizzes, learning modules, math solving tools, and proofreading help. Homework help sites can also provide textbook solutions (i.e. answers to problems in tons of different textbooks your school might be using), one-on-one tutoring, and peer-to-peer platforms that allow you to discuss subjects you’re learning about with your fellow students. 

And best of all, nearly all of them offer their services 24/7, including tutoring! 

What You Should Should Look Out For

When it comes to homework help, there are lots–and we mean lots –of scam sites out there willing to prey on desperate students. Before you sign up for any service, make sure you read reviews to ensure you’re working with a legitimate company. 

A word to the wise: the more a company advertises help that veers into the territory of cheating, the more likely it is to be a scam. The best homework help websites are going to help you learn the concepts you’ll need to successfully complete your homework on your own. (We’ll go over the difference between “homework help” and “cheating” a little later!) 

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You don't need a golden piggy bank to use homework help websites. Some provide low or no cost help for students like you!

How Expensive Are the Best Homework Help Websites?

First of all, just because a homework help site costs money doesn’t mean it’s a good service. Likewise, just because a homework help website is free doesn’t mean the help isn’t high quality. To find the best websites, you have to take a close look at the quality and types of information they provide! 

When it comes to paid homework help services, the prices vary pretty widely depending on the amount of services you want to subscribe to. Subscriptions can cost anywhere from $2 to $150 dollars per month, with the most expensive services offering several hours of one-on-one tutoring with a subject expert per month.

The 5 Best Homework Help Websites 

So, what is the best homework help website you can use? The answer is that it depends on what you need help with. 

The best homework help websites are the ones that are reliable and help you learn the material. They don’t just provide answers to homework questions–they actually help you learn the material. 

That’s why we’ve broken down our favorite websites into categories based on who they’re best for . For instance, the best website for people struggling with math might not work for someone who needs a little extra help with science, and vice versa. 

Keep reading to find the best homework help website for you! 

Best Free Homework Help Site: Khan Academy

  • Price: Free!
  • Best for: Practicing tough material 

Not only is Khan Academy free, but it’s full of information and can be personalized to suit your needs. When you set up your account , you choose which courses you need to study, and Khan Academy sets up a personal dashboard of instructional videos, practice exercises, and quizzes –with both correct and incorrect answer explanations–so you can learn at your own pace. 

As an added bonus, it covers more course topics than many other homework help sites, including several AP classes.

Runner Up: Brainly.com offers a free service that allows you to type in questions and get answers and explanations from experts. The downside is that you’re limited to two answers per question and have to watch ads. 

Best Paid Homework Help Site: Chegg

  • Price: $14.95 to $19.95 per month
  • Best for: 24/7 homework assistance  

This service has three main parts . The first is Chegg Study, which includes textbook solutions, Q&A with subject experts, flashcards, video explanations, a math solver, and writing help. The resources are thorough, and reviewers state that Chegg answers homework questions quickly and accurately no matter when you submit them.  

Chegg also offers textbook rentals for students who need access to textbooks outside of their classroom. Finally, Chegg offers Internship and Career Advice for students who are preparing to graduate and may need a little extra help with the transition out of high school. 

Another great feature Chegg provides is a selection of free articles geared towards helping with general life skills, like coping with stress and saving money. Chegg’s learning modules are comprehensive, and they feature solutions to the problems in tons of different textbooks in a wide variety of subjects. 

Runner Up: Bartleby offers basically the same services as Chegg for $14.99 per month. The reason it didn’t rank as the best is based on customer reviews that say user questions aren’t answered quite as quickly on this site as on Chegg. Otherwise, this is also a solid choice!

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Best Site for Math Homework Help: Photomath

  • Price: Free (or $59.99 per year for premium services) 
  • Best for: Explaining solutions to math problems

This site allows you to t ake a picture of a math problem, and instantly pulls up a step-by-step solution, as well as a detailed explanation of the concept. Photomath also includes animated videos that break down mathematical concepts to help you better understand and remember them. 

The basic service is free, but for an additional fee you can get extra study tools and learn additional strategies for solving common math problems.

Runner Up: KhanAcademy offers in-depth tutorials that cover complex math topics for free, but you won’t get the same tailored help (and answers!) that Photomath offers. 

Best Site for English Homework Help: Princeton Review Academic Tutoring

  • Price: $40 to $153 per month, depending on how many hours of tutoring you want 
  • Best for: Comprehensive and personalized reading and writing help 

While sites like Grammarly and Sparknotes help you by either proofreading what you write via an algorithm or providing book summaries, Princeton Review’s tutors provide in-depth help with vocabulary, literature, essay writing and development, proofreading, and reading comprehension. And unlike other services, you’ll have the chance to work with a real person to get help. 

The best part is that you can get on-demand English (and ESL) tutoring from experts 24/7. That means you can get help whenever you need it, even if you’re pulling an all-nighter! 

This is by far the most expensive homework site on this list, so you’ll need to really think about what you need out of a homework help website before you commit. One added benefit is that the subscription covers over 80 other subjects, including AP classes, which can make it a good value if you need lots of help!  

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Best Site for STEM Homework Help: Studypool

  • Best for: Science homework help
  • Price: Varies; you’ll pay for each question you submit

When it comes to science homework help, there aren’t a ton of great resources out there. The best of the bunch is Studypool, and while it has great reviews, there are some downsides as well. 

Let’s start with the good stuff. Studypool offers an interesting twist on the homework help formula. After you create a free account, you can submit your homework help questions, and tutors will submit bids to answer your questions. You’ll be able to select the tutor–and price point–that works for you, then you’ll pay to have your homework question answered. You can also pay a small fee to access notes, lectures, and other documents that top tutors have uploaded. 

The downside to Studypool is that the pricing is not transparent . There’s no way to plan for how much your homework help will cost, especially if you have lots of questions! Additionally, it’s not clear how tutors are selected, so you’ll need to be cautious when you choose who you’d like to answer your homework questions.  

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What Are the Pros and Cons of Using Homework Help Sites?

Homework help websites can be a great resource if you’re struggling in a subject, or even if you just want to make sure that you’re really learning and understanding topics and ideas that you’re interested in. But, there are some possible drawbacks if you don’t use these sites responsibly. 

We’ll go over the good–and the not-so-good–aspects of getting online homework help below. 

3 Pros of Using Homework Help Websites 

First, let’s take a look at the benefits. 

#1: Better Grades Beyond Homework

This is a big one! Getting outside help with your studies can improve your understanding of concepts that you’re learning, which translates into better grades when you take tests or write essays. 

Remember: homework is designed to help reinforce the concepts you learned in class. If you just get easy answers without learning the material behind the problems, you may not have the tools you need to be successful on your class exams…or even standardized tests you’ll need to take for college. 

#2: Convenience

One of the main reasons that online homework help is appealing is because it’s flexible and convenient. You don’t have to go to a specific tutoring center while they’re open or stay after school to speak with your teacher. Instead, you can access helpful resources wherever you can access the internet, whenever you need them.

This is especially true if you tend to study at off hours because of your extracurriculars, work schedule, or family obligations. Sites that offer 24/7 tutoring can give you the extra help you need if you can’t access the free resources that are available at your school. 

#3: Variety

Not everyone learns the same way. Maybe you’re more of a visual learner, but your teacher mostly does lectures. Or maybe you learn best by listening and taking notes, but you’re expected to learn something just from reading the textbook . 

One of the best things about online homework help is that it comes in a variety of forms. The best homework help sites offer resources for all types of learners, including videos, practice activities, and even one-on-one discussions with real-life experts. 

This variety can also be a good thing if you just don’t really resonate with the way a concept is being explained (looking at you, math textbooks!).

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Not so fast. There are cons to homework help websites, too. Get to know them below!

3 Cons of Using Homework Help Websites 

Now, let’s take a look at the drawbacks of online homework help. 

#1: Unreliable Info

This can be a real problem. In addition to all the really good homework help sites, there are a whole lot of disreputable or unreliable sites out there. The fact of the matter is that some homework help sites don’t necessarily hire people who are experts in the subjects they’re talking about. In those cases, you may not be getting the accurate, up-to-date, and thorough information you need.

Additionally, even the great sites may not be able to answer all of your homework questions. This is especially true if the site uses an algorithm or chatbot to help students…or if you’re enrolled in an advanced or college-level course. In these cases, working with your teacher or school-provided tutors are probably your best option. 

#2: No Clarification

This depends on the service you use, of course. But the majority of them provide free or low-cost help through pre-recorded videos. Watching videos or reading info online can definitely help you with your homework… but you can’t ask questions or get immediate feedback if you need it .

#3: Potential For Scamming 

Like we mentioned earlier, there are a lot of homework help websites out there, and lots of them are scams. The review comments we read covered everything from outdated or wrong information, to misleading claims about the help provided, to not allowing people to cancel their service after signing up. 

No matter which site you choose to use, make sure you research and read reviews before you sign up–especially if it’s a paid service! 

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When Does “Help” Become “Cheating”?

Admittedly, whether using homework help websites constitutes cheating is a bit of a grey area. For instance, is it “help” when a friend reads your essay for history class and corrects your grammar, or is it “cheating”? The truth is, not everyone agrees on when “help” crosses the line into “cheating .” When in doubt, it can be a good idea to check with your teacher to see what they think about a particular type of help you want to get. 

That said, a general rule of thumb to keep in mind is to make sure that the assignment you turn in for credit is authentically yours . It needs to demonstrate your own thoughts and your own current abilities. Remember: the point of every homework assignment is to 1) help you learn something, and 2) show what you’ve learned. 

So if a service answers questions or writes essays for you, there’s a good chance using it constitutes cheating. 

Here’s an example that might help clarify the difference for you. Brainstorming essay ideas with others or looking online for inspiration is “help” as long as you write the essay yourself. Having someone read it and give you feedback about what you need to change is also help, provided you’re the one that makes the changes later. 

But copying all or part of an essay you find online or having someone write (or rewrite) the whole thing for you would be “cheating.” The same is true for other subjects. Ultimately, if you’re not generating your own work or your own answers, it’s probably cheating.

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5 Tips for Finding the Best Homework Help Websites for You

Now that you know some of our favorite homework help websites, free and paid, you can start doing some additional research on your own to decide which services might work best for you! Here are some top tips for choosing a homework help website. 

Tip 1: Decide How You Learn Best 

Before you decide which site or sites you’re going to use for homework help, y ou should figure out what kind of learning style works for you the most. Are you a visual learner? Then choose a site that uses lots of videos to help explain concepts. If you know you learn best by actually doing tasks, choose a site that provides lots of practice exercises.

Tip 2: Determine Which Subjects You Need Help With

Just because a homework help site is good overall doesn’t mean that it’s equally good for every subject. If you only need help in math, choose a site that specializes in that area. But if history is where you’re struggling, a site that specializes in math won’t be much help. So make sure to choose a site that you know provides high-quality help in the areas you need it most. 

Tip 3: Decide How Much One-On-One Help You Need 

This is really about cost-effectiveness. If you learn well on your own by reading and watching videos, a free site like Khan Academy is a good choice. But if you need actual tutoring, or to be able to ask questions and get personalized answers from experts, a paid site that provides that kind of service may be a better option.

Tip 4: Set a Budget 

If you decide you want to go with a paid homework help website, set a budget first . The prices for sites vary wildly, and the cost to use them can add up quick. 

Tip 5: Read the Reviews

Finally, it’s always a good idea to read actual reviews written by the people using these homework sites. You’ll learn the good, the bad, and the ugly of what the users’ experiences have been. This is especially true if you intend to subscribe to a paid service. You’ll want to make sure that users think it’s worth the price overall!

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If you want to get good grades on your homework, it’s a good idea to learn how to tackle it strategically. Our expert tips will help you get the most out of each assignment…and boost your grades in the process. 

Doing well on homework assignments is just one part of getting good grades. We’ll teach you everything you need to know about getting great grades in high school in this article. 

Of course, test grades can make or break your GPA, too. Here are 17 expert tips that’ll help you get the most out of your study prep before you take an exam. 

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Think back to your favorite teachers. What did you like about them? What made them such great teachers? Chances are, they were supportive, cared about you, and were positive. You are your children’s first and primary teacher, and that doesn’t end when they go to school. Just like those teachers you loved, you can be positive and encourage your teens too. Getting involved in the homework routine can help them develop discipline and problem-solving skills. Your support can help ensure success in school and beyond.

What Is the Right Amount of Homework?

The right amount of homework depends on your teen’s age and skills. The U.S. Department of Education suggests that teens study and work on homework for at least an hour each day, while the National Education Association (NEA) and the National PTA (NPTA) recommend 10 minutes of homework per grade level. Some parents even advocate for no homework, citing the increased rates of obesity and anxiety as reasons to help youth better balance home and school. You know your child better than anyone. If you are concerned that your teen has either too much or too little homework, talk with your teen’s teachers.

How Can I Help with Homework?

For many reasons, parents often do not envision themselves as helpers when it comes to high school homework. New math, online learning, and Common Core changes can be confusing, and many parents say helping causes tension or stress. Other parents say they believe the responsibility belongs to the teen and thus put the onus on the young person to do the work. Regardless of your feelings about homework, you can take steps to help your teen, even if you are unfamiliar with the subject matter.

Include your teen when making decisions.

Teens are naturally working toward independence. This is the time for them to take responsibility for their work. With guidance, they can develop habits that can serve them for a lifetime. Gone are the days when we tell our children what to do and plan their every activity; they are teens now and need to be part of the planning. The most effective approach to homework is coming to an agreement, working together to create a plan for success.

Focus on the positive.

Congratulate and praise your teen regularly, focusing on effort rather than product. We all do better when we feel better, so praise the effort on that amazing science project or share how much you enjoyed reading an essay. Sometimes you may want to celebrate with ice cream or do something special to mark achievements. It also helps to ask your teen to identify the positive short-term and long-term results of being diligent with assignments and workload. When you enable them to vocalize these positives, they may internalize them easier and develop more intrinsic motivation.

Your teen might get frustrated sometimes, and that’s normal. At those moments, suggest taking a break, and let your teen know you will help when the time is right. Validating feelings and showing empathy are key to repairing a relationship and helping the teen move forward.

Talk to your teen about homework.

Communication is key. Ask questions and find out what they are working on in each class. Find out what they love about each class and what they find difficult. Take time to listen, not criticize or offer solutions. Their responses can help you show empathy and understanding in times of stress. Here are some suggested questions for starting a conversation.

  • What topic are you covering in class right now?
  • Tell me about your teacher’s style of teaching.
  • What are you supposed to do tonight?
  • Do you need any help figuring things out?
  • Do you need anything to finish the assignment?
  • How can I help you?

Make homework a routine.

As a team, find a regular time to work on assignments, perhaps right after school or dinner. No matter what time you choose, be consistent. Your teen may need some guidance, such as a required amount of time to devote to homework or studies. Setting time requirements can help your teen avoid rushing through homework to watch a TV show or go out with friends.

Find a place without distractions.

Help your teen find a comfortable place to concentrate. Working at the family computer or at the kitchen table allows parents to be available if needed. Limit distractions, such as TV and cell phones. If other family members in the house are noisy, encourage them to take part in a quiet activity that won’t distract. Don’t forget that many communities have public libraries with computers and other resources that can be great study tools for teens.

Set a good example.

Show your teen how the things that he or she is learning will help later in life. Let your teen see you reading books, writing reports and emails, balancing your family budget, doing your taxes, saving for a big purchase, and learning about new technology and science. You can also engage family and friends to offer support and have them set a good example as well. Grandparents and extended family members and friends can reinforce your contribution and can show teens skills you might lack. Sharing real world activities provides young people examples of how what they learn at school really matters and is applicable in real life. Communicate that it takes hard work to master these activities, and let your teen know that you also struggle with some tasks. Be excited about learning and discovery—it’s infectious.

Limit media.

Research shows that students do better in school if you limit the time they spend watching TV, playing video games, and surfing the internet. You may want to discuss this with your teen as you figure out a good homework routine and life balance. These activities are a normal part of most teens’ lives but should not be allowed to dominate their time at home.

Support lifelong learning.

Keep learning going over the summer and on long breaks. We all enjoy and often need a break. However, engaging in summer activities through clubs or groups like 4-H can help with information retention and promote lifelong learning. The key is making learning fun and offering more flexibility and choice in lifelong learning. Breaks can be a great time for exploring lessons learned and skills developed. Ask teens to reflect on past experiences, both positive and negative, and use the break to develop skills and prepare for success. What went well this year? What would have made the year better? These reflective questions can help teens identify struggles and successes of the past year and help them explore ways to improve future experiences.

Encourage good sleep habits and healthy eating.

Healthy habits help teens be successful at school and in life. Good sleep is hard to come by for teens who are up late and up early. Helping them identify the benefits of good sleep and healthy eating is part of the solution. Encouraging a consistent sleep routine and offering healthy meals are critical. Share a piece of fruit during homework time or start studying after a nice, healthy dinner.

Relax! School is already stressful for many students, and adding to the stress at home only makes the situation worse. Mental health is key, and creating unnecessary stress around homework is not the goal. It is good to relax and not put undue pressure on students to complete their homework to perfection. Supporting teens is key; nagging and setting unrealistic expectations create stress and deter from the goal. Their brains work best when youth are connected and supported by those they love. That means a happy, positive learning environment is the only kind in which people can really learn. If you focus on the positives and relax about homework, it can make all the difference.

Some Homework Tips

  • Make a schedule and a plan to help your teen avoid cramming for tests and waiting until the last minute to complete projects.
  • Help your teen get started on research reports or other big assignments early. A little support can go a long way.
  • Help your student find resources such as books, internet resources, and tutors. Don’t do the work for your teen. Instead, be there to guide him or her in the right direction.
  • Make learning fun. Everyone does better when there is joy, so remove the stress and focus on the positives.

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Don’t Help Your Kids With Homework

Focus on prioritization and process, not the assignment itself.

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So much of the homework advice parents are given is theory-based, and therefore not entirely helpful in the chaos of day-to-day life. People are told that students should have “ grit .” They should “ learn from failure .” But it’s hard to know how to implement these ideas when what you really need is to support a kid who has a chemistry test and two papers due in the next 48 hours but seems to be focused only on Instagram.

Some parents manage to guide their kids through these moments with relative ease. Others hire tutors. The large majority of us, however, are stuck at home alone, trying to stave off our own breakdowns in the face of our children’s.

While reprimanding your child for not having started her homework earlier may be your natural instinct, in the midst of stress, it will only make her shut down or lash out. In our experience as teachers, tutors, and parents, the students who feel terrible about procrastinating are more likely to have anxiety and negative feelings that will only fuel their continued procrastination. So instead of admonishing your procrastinator, take a deep breath and try to figure out how she’s going to manage the tasks at hand. Help her make a realistic plan to manage her time. Try to model understanding, even when you’re upset.

Having tolerance for challenges will allow her to approach future frustrations from a more positive perspective. Easier said than done, to be sure, but try to work with your child to identify not only how but why her homework habits are suffering. This understanding will be crucial to helping her transform these habits into more effective ones.

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Because most of us are programmed to focus on present rather than future fulfillment, it’s easy to put off something we dread. Kids who procrastinate almost always do so because they have negative associations with or feelings about a particular task. Unfortunately, avoiding assignments usually lowers students’ self-esteem and makes them dislike the topic that much more, resulting in a vicious cycle of procrastination. Therefore, it’s important both to address why students are procrastinating—what’s upsetting them about the work at hand—and to give them practical tools to manage their time and set priorities.

If you’re worried that your child is the only one in her class who takes ages to get started on her homework, fear not. Students in our classes—and our own kids too, just like many of us adults—have found every which way to put off sitting down to tackle the one thing they know they need to get done. There are all kinds of reasons kids avoid doing their homework. Maybe they’re concerned about what a teacher will think, or that their work won’t measure up to a friend’s. Maybe they’re distracted by something that happened in school that day.

Whatever the case may be, the first step here is determining out what’s stressing your child out in the first place.

If your child fears what her teacher will think if she makes mistakes: She should start off by independently reviewing the material that she feels unsure of, and then reach out to her teacher for further help if she needs it. Assure her that asking questions and making an effort are important to her teacher. Take it from us: Teachers see questions as a sign of an engaged, conscientious, and curious student. No matter the teacher’s temperament or reputation, she will respond positively to your child coming to her with sincere questions and hard work.

If your child fears parental judgment due to bad grades: Remember that although high marks may be important to you, focusing on process and effort is key to your child’s success, not to mention that putting too much pressure on her can lead to resentment. Help your child create a process she can rely on for her work. Better effort will help your child engage with the material and yield better results in the long run.

If your child fears her best friend’s judgment: Start by encouraging your child not to discuss grades with her friends. Middle schoolers in particular tend to share their marks with one another, and it usually just makes kids feel lousy. The “What did you get?” question is tough for all students, especially in the middle grades, when they are looking for affirmation from their peers. Your child’s grades are no one else’s business. While her best friend may do well in history, he may have more trouble with math than your child does. Or maybe he seems great at everything now, but he actually struggles in art class, and in the future he’ll be a terrible driver or have an awkward first date. In other words, we all have subjects—or areas of our lives—that come more or less easily than others. Challenges are inevitable. What matters most is how we approach them.

If your child fears she isn’t capable: First acknowledge how painful this feeling must be. Then reassure her that she is capable and give concrete anecdotes so she doesn’t roll her eyes. Share with her a moment when you thought you couldn’t do something, but you learned to conquer the task. And be honest! Your kid will know that you didn’t really wrestle that champion alligator. Emphasize the importance of determination, effort, and persistence in whichever example of your successes you choose to share.

If your child is exhausted: Prioritize only what’s really essential. Try to help your child go to bed earlier. She can always wake up early to complete smaller assignments if need be. Getting major work done while exhausted is a losing battle for everyone. Help her plan ahead. Create a schedule for completing small portions of a larger assignment over the course of several days or weeks to make overwhelming work seem more manageable.

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Once you figure out what’s driving your child’s procrastination, you can strategize with her about logistics. Start by removing temptation when possible. Of course she’d rather see where her friends went this afternoon than stare at a blinking cursor, and if all it takes is a simple click or swipe for your child to access social media, it’s going to take her eons to finish an assignment. It will be almost impossible for her to develop an argument that flows if she’s tempted by her phone. So all possible impediments to success should be removed. Disabling social-media and messaging apps and having a conversation about the purpose of setting technology limits is an important first step. Putting her phone aside will also help her compartmentalize time so that she can get her work done more thoroughly and then have free time afterward. Technological boundaries may lead to major pushback—especially now, when kids rely on technology for most forms of socializing—but this temporary misery is undoubtedly worth it in the long run.

And emphasize that short-term pleasure equals long-term pain. Empathize with children who do not want to do something that’s hard. Then remind them that the immediate instinct to procrastinate and play video games will make life miserable later. While they may resist and grumble, helping establish rules will ultimately prevent suffering tonight, tomorrow, and next week. Kids thrive in the comfort, reliability, and safety of a structured, focused work environment. It’s never easy, but on evenings when you want to tear your hair out because your child won’t sit down to work, reinforce the message that short-term gratification will only get in the way of long-term goals.

Finally, explain the relevance of the assignment. If kids don’t understand why they’re doing the work, they’re more likely to be frustrated. For example, your child might ask, “Why do I need to know algebra? I’ll never use it when I’m older.” You can tell the truth: “You probably won’t need to know about variables in everyday life, but learning algebra will give you a framework for understanding how to break down and solve complex tasks down the road.”

Learning to work independently, without a teacher’s direct counsel, is key to building academic and personal autonomy. So when your child is overwhelmed, help her figure out why, and then model strategies that foster independence, confidence, and well-being.

This piece is adapted from Freireich and Platzer’s new book, Taking the Stress out of Homework . Every Tuesday, they answer education-related questions . Have one? Email them at [email protected].

Best Ways to Calm the Homework Rush

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“My kid always rushes through her homework!” I hear this complaint from many parents. As adults, it’s difficult for us to understand why our children can’t slow down, take time to focus, and check their work. Rushing is not a serious issue if your child occasionally races through homework because she has “better things to do.” Rushing only becomes a problem when your child can’t slow down, seems unmotivated to do well, and often turns in work that is inaccurate and contains careless errors. For this type of student, rushing is frequently a daily habit.

I’m a big proponent of establishing a Dedicated Homework Time , otherwise known as DHT . It’s a scheduled block of time each weekday that is dedicated to homework, whether the student says she has it or not. DHT helps break the rushing habit. Regardless of how quickly your child finishes homework, the entire DHT should be dedicated to academically related tasks. If she finishes before the DHT is up, she can study for a test, work on a long-term project, organize her notebook, or read.

The general rule of thumb is that the total time spent doing homework should be equivalent to 10 minutes per grade level. For example, a third grader’s DHT should be 30 minutes; 4th graders should complete 40 minutes and so on. Once 7th and 8th grade rolls around, I recommend an hour. Students in grades 9 – 12 benefit from 90 minutes of DHT . I’ve found that for many parents struggling with the homework issue, implementing DHT is the best place to start. The question then becomes, “How do I do it?”

To establish a Designated Homework Time, sit down with your child and discuss why you’re implementing this new concept. It’s best to have this discussion either at the beginning of a month, a new school week, or a new grading period. At this time, you may say, “I know homework has become stressful for both of us. Let’s try this for the next month,” or “Let’s start this quarter off on a positive note.”

A common question regarding DHT is “What do you do if there’s no homework assigned?” It’s been my experience that there is almost always something to do. Ask your child to do a binder check. She’ll probably find assignments she forgot about or is putting off. If there is really no homework, consider the following options:

For younger children:

  • Begin to work on an upcoming book report or project.
  • Learn to keyboard if handwriting is consistently difficult to read. Try Type to Learn software to teach or improve typing skills.
  • Drill math facts on an educational website or computer software. Some great websites are funbrain.com and multiplication.com .
  • Simply read a required book or choose one for pleasure.

Older students can:

  • Plan ahead. Use this time to record long-term projects along with incremental due dates.
  • Work on anything that’s not due the next day. All incremental deadlines have associated work. Getting ahead during the DHT is one of the best uses of time.
  • Study for an upcoming test. Review old tests and quizzes or create a study guide similar to what may be on the test.

I recently worked with bright, warm, and engaging sixth grade girl named Gianna. Gianna’s parents reported that their daughter would do the least amount of work necessary to get by and often proclaimed that she was finished in less than 15 minutes. Before they turned around, she was out the door, hanging out with the kids in the neighborhood. When there was no one in sight, Gianna was quick to jump on the computer and begin instant messaging with her friends. I recommended that a full 60 minutes be carved out of Gianna’s schedule for DHT . Her parents agreed and were more than happy to add this to their schedule since homework time had become such a battle.

DHT worked wonders for Gianna’s situation. She and her parents no longer argued about the minimal amount of time she spent on homework. In fact, Gianna’s grades improved because she was turning in better quality homework. However, her parents encountered one common problem. On some days, Gianna did not have much homework. When this occurred, they felt like they were constantly repeating the same ideas over and over. So, with Gianna, they created and posted a DHT menu on the family bulletin board. It contained a list of activities available to Gianna when she had no homework left to do.

Establishing Designated Homework Time and a DHT menu helped Gianna to complete her work independently. When her 60 minutes of DHT was up, one of her parents asked to see her completed work. They did not check every answer but they made sure the work was generally correctly and more importantly, completed.

Establishing DHT is an easy and highly effective solution to homework woes. You may find that your child is resistant to her new found schedule at first, but stick with it. It truly does take 21 days to change a habit. In just three weeks, your child will adjust and the precious after-school hours will be a whole lot less stressful.

Ann K. Dolin, M.Ed., is the founder and president of Educational Connections, Inc., a tutoring, test prep, and consulting company in Fairfax, VA and Bethesda, MD. In her award-winning book, Homework Made Simple: Tips, Tools and Solutions for Stress-Free Homework , Dolin offers proven solutions to help the six key types of students who struggle with homework. Numerous examples and easy-to-implement, fun tips will help make homework less of a chore for the whole family. Learn more at anndolin.ectutoring.com or ectutoring.com .

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Navigating romantic relationships at the office can be as treacherous as it is thrilling.

If you've ever wondered if things were more than just professional with someone from the office, you're not alone.

Over the past year, nearly half of U.S. workers had a crush on a coworker, more than one in five went on a date with someone from work, and more than one in ten matched with a colleague on a dating app, according to a report out this month from the Society for Human Resource Management (SHRM).

The report also found that engaging in a workplace romance can have a positive effect on overall mood, motivation and sense of belonging at work. But navigating relationships at the office can be as treacherous as it is thrilling.

Consent from your office crush is crucial before jumping into a relationship: "With consent, there is no sexual harassment. With consent, there's no sexual abuse. And with consent, there are no issues with dating in the workplace," said Marjorie Mesidor, an employment discrimination, sexual harassment and sexual abuse attorney who only represents plaintiffs.

A 2020 story from NPR's Life Kit advised, "Read the social cues carefully. If you do ask someone out, emphasize that you are not trying to pressure the person, and make sure the person won't feel like it's awkward to say no. Only ask a coworker out once. And remember: Anything less than an unqualified "yes" is a "no." There's no gray zone."

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Can I date that co-worker? What to consider before an office romance

Mesidor, 45, is the mother of four girls (three Gen Z, one Gen Alpha) and says the way consent is defined can differ among generations.

"When we were growing up, it used to be 'no means no' when it came to consent. Now, it's 'yes means yes,'" she said.

Mesidor says that what used to be viewed as flirting with someone who is "playing hard to get" may now be seen as harassing them.

Amy Gallo is the author of Getting Along: How to Work with Anyone (Even Difficult People) and the co-host of Harvard Business Review's Women at Work podcast. She's not surprised at how many people develop crushes on their colleagues.

"We spend a ton of time with one another. We're often having vulnerable conversations. We're seeing each other thrive in our jobs," Gallo said. "It's understandable that we would become interested in someone we work with."

And that time spent together doesn't just mean time spent in person. Workplace romances actually increased during the pandemic, in part due to the constant contact that remote work gave way to, according to Amy Nicole Baker, a psychology professor at the University of New Haven who studies workplace romance.

"They may not have been communicating face to face, but they were communicating over Zoom and sometimes communicating privately during Zoom [meetings] and sharing more intimate, off-the-cuff kinds of insights," Baker said. "Those kinds of shared experiences bond people."

If you're still considering whether to date a coworker, you may be figuring out whether they like you back , or whether they'd feel safe telling you "no" if you ask them out. But, if you're already romantically involved with someone at the office, workplace coach and author Amy Gallo has a few tips for navigating it.

First: make sure it's allowed

If you choose to date a coworker, Gallo says to proceed with caution. Some companies have policies against office relationships, and in some states, "it's legal for a company to put a policy in place to fire people if they end up having a relationship," she said.

Get on the same page about whether, how and when to share the news

It may be tempting to keep the relationship under wraps, but that can backfire, Gallo says.

"The real risk is that you try to hide it, but that people find out about it anyway, because that erodes trust," she said. "You have to really be careful that you're not holding it secret out of fear that people will judge you and then they end up judging you anyway, because now they feel like you're a secret keeper."

But that doesn't mean you need to tell your boss after the first date — or even after the first few.

"If you see yourselves having more than a casual relationship, I'd recommend letting your manager know (at a minimum) and anyone who works closely with both of you," she said.

When you tell your coworkers, Gallo suggests keeping it simple and straightforward, such as, "I don't want to get into all of the details, but I did want to let you know that so-and-so and I are in a relationship. We don't know where it will go but I felt you should know."

She says that disclosing a relationship can be harder for LGBTQ employees in less-than-accepting environments.

"The general rule is that honesty is the best policy but carefully consider the potential implications," she added.

If you're not forthcoming about your romance, office gossip may start to circulate.

"If you hear, 'Oh, so-and-so is talking about you, they think you're involved with so-and-so in another department,' I think it can be really helpful to make clear [to your coworkers], 'What happens between me and my colleague isn't your business. But I want to be clear: I am maintaining professionalism,'" Gallo said.

What if I'm dating my boss?

It's widely believed that dating your boss is a bad idea. There are conflicts of interest — for example, it's hard to give objective performance reviews to someone you're dating.

"I would really, really caution against having a relationship with anyone up or down the hierarchy," Gallo said. "Because once that power dynamic comes into play, then people really start to assign motive."

When a direct report starts dating their boss, Gallo says coworkers may wonder, "Are you pursuing this person because you want a leg up or you're hoping for a promotion, or you want to be perceived as someone who is associated with this person in power?"

Mesidor, the employment attorney, says that the #MeToo movement changed the way she views workplace romances, especially those that involve power dynamics.

"The #MeToo movement has highlighted that the very existence of the power dynamic in and of itself can be enough to create a harassing situation," Mesidor said. "Even if the person was not otherwise inclined, they may believe that they have to, because the person is their supervisor."

If you find yourself in a relationship with a boss or a direct report, Gallo says consider transferring to a new boss — or reassigning your direct report to another team.

If we're on the same team, should we keep working together?

The more closely you work with someone you're dating, the messier things could turn out in the long run.

"If it wouldn't be a major disruption to the project or to your career, it's a good idea for you all not to work directly together," Gallo said. "It will avoid any awkwardness between you and it'll make sure that you don't make others on the project uncomfortable. Also, if you break up, it'll be less painful if you don't have to continue working closely with that person."

Unfortunately, this might be disruptive to the project and it might not be possible. Asking to be taken off of a project could put you in a position where you're forced to disclose the relationship before you're ready.

"It doesn't have to be you that asks to be taken off the project," Gallo said. "The person you're dating could ask too. I'd recommend discussing it between you and deciding who it would have less of an impact on."

Most relationships don't last — so talk about what happens if you break up as soon as you can

"When you decide to pursue a relationship with a coworker, as uncomfortable as this may feel, you have to talk about what happens if we break up because you're still going to be coworkers," Gallo said. "Ideally you have that conversation early on, because, let's be honest, most relationships don't last."

Gallo suggests setting an intention to have as little drama as possible in the wake of a coworker breakup.

Among U.S. workers who broke up with a colleague, 62% continued to work with their ex, and one in ten say they "left a job they liked because of the breakup," according to SHRM's report.

"Don't try to draw your coworkers into the breakup," Gallo said. "You want to keep it professional and you want to make sure you're protecting your mental health at the same time."

When you do break up with your coworker, Gallo recommends leaning on your support system, but that might not be enough.

"If you find it so painful that you cannot actually do your job or you feel like it's taking a real toll on your mental health, you might consider switching jobs or asking to be reassigned to another project."

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How to Chat Up Your Crush without Being Awkward

Last Updated: September 18, 2023 Fact Checked

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This article was co-authored by Joshua Pompey and by wikiHow staff writer, Dev Murphy, MA . Joshua Pompey is a Relationship Expert with over 10 years of helping people navigate the online dating world. Joshua has run his own relationship consulting business since 2009 at a success rate of over 99%. His work has been featured in CNBC, Good Morning America, Wired, and Refinery29 and he has been referred to as the best online dater in the world. There are 9 references cited in this article, which can be found at the bottom of the page. This article has been fact-checked, ensuring the accuracy of any cited facts and confirming the authority of its sources. This article has been viewed 342,612 times.

Crushes are some of the most exciting things on the planet. All you want to do is talk to them, but how are you supposed to do that when you’re totally vibrating from nervousness? Sure, you can just avoid your crush and hope your feelings go away in time…or you can take simple steps to overcome your anxiety and wow your crush with your comfy, confident energy! We’ve made a guide to help you manage your nerves so you can stay cool as a cucumber while you chat up your crush. Check it out, below!

Things You Should Know

  • Talk to your friends about your crush: it might help alleviate some of your nerves when you actually talk to your crush!
  • Chat with your crush in a group setting first, if you can: this will help you feel more relaxed while you get to know them.
  • Practice deep-breathing techniques to feel calmer, and go easy on yourself if you make a mistake in front of your crush. Remember, you're only human, and so are they!

Step 1 Talk to your friends about your crush.

  • Your friends' support will likely boost your confidence, which will help you to feel less overwhelmed when speaking with your crush. [2] X Trustworthy Source Mayo Clinic Educational website from one of the world's leading hospitals Go to source
  • Another side benefit is that talking to your friends about your crush can force you to actually do something about it. Once your friends know about it, they may subtly push you to take action. This can be a good thing if you lack the courage to take action on your own.

Step 2 Start out interacting with your crush in a group.

  • Even if you only spend a few minutes interacting with your crush the first few times you hang out in a group, just being in physical proximity can help your crush develop feelings for you (if they don't have them already). [3] X Research source

Step 3 Take your time engaging them in one-on-one conversations.

  • Start by chatting them up at a casual, natural location, like their locker or in the hall as you walk out of class together. Make small talk, like "Did you get the homework done?" or "How was your weekend?"
  • Remember, most people love to talk about themselves. Asking your crush questions about their life is a great way to engage their attention and show them you're interested in them without coming across too strong. [4] X Trustworthy Source Association for Psychological Science Nonprofit organization devoted promoting trustworthy research and education in the psychological sciences Go to source (Focusing the convo on them will also take pressure off of you to think of things to say!)

Step 4 Always remember that your crush is a human being.

  • If you find yourself freaking out when you're around your crush, think back to some time that you remember them doing something wrong, like making a bad play during a sports game or accidentally doing something embarrassing. This is a good way to remind yourself that your crush is far from perfect, even if it may not always seem like it.

Step 5 Be confident...

  • It's super easy to feel like all your worth comes from your crush's feelings about you, but remember the 90-10 rule: try to let 90% of your confidence stem from your inherent sense of self-worth, and 10% come from external validation (which we all need!), like attention from your crush.
  • Confidence is also an attractive trait to most people, so believing in yourself and knowing your worth is a win-win! [6] X Research source

Step 1 Avoid paying your crush too much attention.

  • You can tell if they're interested in the conversation if they're quick to reply (if you're texting) or if they respond to you in ways that continue the chat. If they take a while to reply or only respond in brief, one-word answers that don't really continue the chat, let the conversation die for the time being.
  • Assume good intent if your crush isn't up for chatting. Instead, follow Bill Murray's advice in What About Bob? and treat them like a telephone: "If I meet somebody who I don’t think likes me, I say to myself, ‘Bob, this one is temporarily out of order. Don’t break the connection, just hang up and try again.'”
  • A good general rule is to always try to end the conversation a little earlier than you think you need to. Not only will this prevent awkward, drawn-out exchanges, but it’ll also leave your crush eager to talk to you again.

Step 2 Try not to...

  • Making a mistake can really make you feel inadequate! But it's important to remember that that's all it is—a feeling . It's not reality: everyone makes mistakes! [7] X Trustworthy Source Harvard Business Review Online and print journal covering topics related to business management practices Go to source
  • If you find yourself ruminating on an awkward conversation you had earlier in the day with your crush, try to distract yourself with something mentally engaging, like a game or a chat with a friend. [8] X Trustworthy Source PubMed Central Journal archive from the U.S. National Institutes of Health Go to source
  • When your mistakes feel super overwhelming, looking at the bigger picture can help you shrug them off. Ask yourself: Will I be thinking about this little mistake in 5 or 10 years? You probably won't be!

Step 3 Resist letting your anxiety get to you.

  • Remove yourself from the difficult situation. You can tell a white lie here. Something like, "Excuse me, I have to go to the bathroom" usually works.
  • Let your emotions out. If you're sad, cry somewhere private. If you're angry, try punching a pillow.
  • Take deep breaths. This will slow your heart rate and help you get your emotions under control. [9] X Trustworthy Source Mayo Clinic Educational website from one of the world's leading hospitals Go to source
  • When you're ready, go back to what you were doing with your head held high.

Step 4 Avoid being too shy to ever express your true feelings.

  • However, remember that your crush may not feel the same way about you. If you get a response like, "I'm touched you feel this way about me, but can we be friends instead?" try to take the rejection gracefully . Say "Of course!" and walk away.

Step 5 Avoid letting your crush dominate your thoughts.

  • If you're having trouble not obsessing, ask a friend for support! Go out to the mall or the movies to distract yourself from thoughts of your crush. [10] X Trustworthy Source PubMed Central Journal archive from the U.S. National Institutes of Health Go to source
  • When you find yourself dwelling on your crush, try writing down a list of all the things you like about yourself or that have gone well for you in the current week. This can help slow your racing mind and boost your self-esteem.
  • When you have a major crush, it's a great time to take up a new hobby. Your new activity will not only distract you, but it'll build your self-confidence and remind you that winning over your crush isn't the end-all-be-all (which will, paradoxically, make it way easier to talk to them).

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  • Practice talking to your crush in the mirror. Pay attention to your tone of voice and body language. Keep your head up, your back straight, and a smile on your face. Thanks Helpful 2 Not Helpful 0

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  • ↑ https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/26744309/
  • ↑ https://www.mayoclinic.org/healthy-lifestyle/adult-health/in-depth/friendships/art-20044860
  • ↑ https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/dating-and-mating/201605/4-ways-you-can-turn-crush-relationship
  • ↑ https://www.psychologicalscience.org/news/minds-business/asking-questions-increases-likability.html
  • ↑ https://www.girlslife.com/crushes/dating/19657/6-ways-to-get-the-guts-to-talk-to-your-crush
  • ↑ https://spsp.org/news-center/character-context-blog/attractiveness-confidence
  • ↑ https://hbr.org/2019/02/how-to-stop-obsessing-over-your-mistakes
  • ↑ https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC3432145/
  • ↑ https://www.mayoclinic.org/diseases-conditions/specific-phobias/expert-answers/fear-of-public-speaking/faq-20058416

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It’s natural to feel nervous when you talk to your crush, but you can keep your cool by taking deep breaths to calm yourself before you approach them. If you’re nervous about being alone with them, try talking to them in groups first. Don’t worry about saying the wrong thing or embarrassing yourself, since everyone makes mistakes and your crush probably won’t even notice. You might think of your crush as perfect, but try to remember that they’re human and have hopes and fears of their own. You can also remind yourself of your best traits and talents to build your confidence and remember that you have a lot to offer as a girlfriend or boyfriend. For more tips, including how to talk to your friends about your crush, read on! Did this summary help you? Yes No

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Mommy Minute: Tips for helping kids with homework

Homework can be stressful not only for kids but for parents as well.

To start off on a positive note, parents should check in with their child after school before getting out the nightly assignments.

“Kids are tired at the end of the day, so you want to make sure your child’s basic needs are met before beginning their homework. Are they hungry, thirsty or do they simply need a brain break,” explained Emily Mudd, PhD, a child psychologist at Cleveland Clinic Children’s. “Then, determine the best time of day for your child to do their homework, and keep in mind it may be different for each of your children.” 

Dr. Mudd said kids thrive when they have a set structure and routine, so it’s important to encourage them to start their homework at the same time every day.

It’s also helpful to have a dedicated space where your child can work and be productive.

Dr. Mudd said it’s best for kids to set aside cell phones and other devices when working on assignments.

Parents can use screen time as a reward after everything is completed for the night.

When it comes to intervening with your child’s homework, Dr. Mudd said parents can help with different assignments but should refrain from doing all the work.

“You really want your child to develop confidence and autonomy in being able to do their own work. Parents should wait until their child reaches out to them to say they need help with a certain problem,” Dr. Mudd said. “You want to create that relationship where your kids know you’re available during their homework time to help them when they need it.” 

Although helping your kids with homework can be stressful, it’s important for parents to demonstrate positive coping skills as a model for their children.

Dr. Mudd said parents can openly express that they need to take a break when they’re overwhelmed, engage in a relaxation activity with their child and then return to the assignment.

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    3. Sit at the same table at lunch. If you and your crush have the same lunch period, try sitting at the same lunch table. Be confident and make conversation with the whole table, not just your crush. This will help you to be more accepted at the table, and you won't seem like you're trying too hard to get your crush's attention.

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    When you spot your crush in person, try to catch their eye. When you do, give them a small smile or even a wave. If your crush is feeling bold that day, they might even come talk to you! [4] However, if your crush is super shy, they might be too nervous to come and talk to you, and that's okay. 5.

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    3. Make time to hang out together. Once you and your crush have gotten to a friendly level, invite them to hang out with you. Start by hanging out as part of a larger group, like going to the movies with several friends. Eventually, see if your crush is open to just the two of you grabbing lunch together. [9]

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    The real play here is make your crush do your homework for you. imissyou16 • 2 yr. ago. but she didn't even ask and he already wants to do it, it's stupid >_<. Doehap • 2 yr. ago. Yeah this is a classic case of major simping. Lethal force recommended. [deleted] • 2 yr. ago.

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    The challenge: Managing time and staying organized. Some kids struggle with keeping track of time and making a plan for getting all of their work done. That's especially true of kids who have trouble with executive function. Try creating a homework schedule and set a specific time and place for your child to get homework done.

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    The general rule of thumb is that the total time spent doing homework should be equivalent to 10 minutes per grade level. For example, a third grader's DHT should be 30 minutes; 4th graders should complete 40 minutes and so on. Once 7th and 8th grade rolls around, I recommend an hour. Students in grades 9 - 12 benefit from 90 minutes of DHT.

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    Focus more on clothes that help you feel confident. If you want to impress your crush, you'll do it with your personality, not with your shirt. Make sure your clothes fit well, are clean, and make you feel good. 2. Check your breath. If you're going to be around your crush, bad breath could be a turnoff.

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    3. Take your time engaging them in one-on-one conversations. The idea of hanging out one-on-one or even just having a conversation with your crush might be overwhelming. So go slow! Aim to speak to your crush for a few seconds one day, and then if it goes well, maybe aim for a few minutes the next day.

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